You have to know what is suppressed, repressed, oppressed or denied, etc.
In order to transcend it
Otherwise--what are You transcending?
You have to deeply understand that no person "deserves" more of anything than another
You have to know that endless misunderstanding of who We truly are... has kept Us (all of us) divided merely by the figments of our imaginations.
Countless things throughout Our lives We suffered "because of"... were only ideas, usually based on other people's "beliefs" about Our selves that We accepted, blindly, as the truth. And the irony is that We had no power to See it any other way!
So when You Wake Up to Now, the true Reality... all the past pain and suffering dissolves in an instant... and instead You Are Left with the deepest Gratitude that Life is Living You...without end.