It is not until we realize that we didn't have a choice that we are Truly able to respond to an other human being---from a 'place of choice'. "Before" that, in ego, all unconscious humans only know reaction.
And they have been acting in a way that they did not choose;
therefore their actions are crazy-mad and unconscious.
Violence, anger, jealousy, hate, evil
All of us have been in this place of normal "ego" madness. And Now many, many begin to "step out" of this pattern (thousands of years)
If You are reading this You are one of these "mutant" humans!
You have suffered enough or recognized the intense suffering of others
...the countless suffering of humanity (hu-Wo+Man-ity) for centuries